My Gratitude

Gratitude is one of the few things that when demonstrated have positive effect on our lives. This is true because we turn to attract more of the things we appreciate and are grateful for into our lives.

Let’s face it. We live in a society that is all about focusing on what we don’t have. TV commercials, magazines, movies all remind us that we can be wealthier, smarter and have more stuff. Well I don’t believe that it is bad to strive for more. Goals keep us moving forward – they give us a sense of purpose and direction.

I’m only suggesting that we take time every day to focus on what is good, what we have done right, what we love about whom we are and the people in our lives.

It is important that we cultivate an attitude of gratitude for everything good that exists in our lives. We can all find things to be grateful for. Now here is my gratitude;

Most of all, I’m eternally grateful to God for the precious gift of life and good health. I’m thankful for my parent and siblings, and all my relatives. I’m thankful for my friends, and colleagues; for my niece and cousins and for the joy I get been around them.

For every school I ever attended and the people that were part of my life there, I am thankful.

For the friends and co-workers I had at AVLSC Lekki, Netcodietsmann Nigeria Limited and Aid to Artisans Ghana.

For anyone I’ve ever considered a close friend. For the rough times I’ve had this year and in years past that have made me a stronger person. For any ex-girlfriend I’ve had that made me a better guy, I am thankful.

I’m grateful for the gift of family, friendship and love. For all this and for so much more, I’m eternally grateful.
The truth of the matter is, no matter how bad you have it or how rough things may be right now, there’s always someone who has it much worse. And by the grace of God it’ll get better.

Being Single

Many of us are given the thought that it’s okay to be in a relationship, it’s un-cool to be single and in fact you are missing-out if you are not hooked up. But is it really so? Well being in a relationship is a great. After all I’ve been a relationship before and I enjoyed it.

Being in a relationship is wonderful but there are times when we will be alone. Our partners might leave us or we might not have met that special one yet. And of course relationships often don’t always last a life time, it could go off when you least expect. And then you become single again.

Yes being single might seem boring and less interesting, but it has loads of advantages. Now, the reason why single people often become sad and lonely is that they usually only look at their disadvantages.

A single life is not a life of doom, sadness, despair or loneliness. Rather, it is important to appreciate the many advantages of being single.

Without a doubt, freedom is the most important merit of being single. You can go anywhere or decide on anything without being answerable to anyone. Being single allows you to be master of your life, rather than trying to be what you are not.
Guys don't have to worry about missing a Champions League match to watch Nolly-wood movie of the week with their partners, and vice versa for ladies. For some guys, being single helps them learn how to cook, clean and do laundry and more.

Being single help most people control their finance. Relationship besides time requires money, and a lot of it. Lol. When single, you are in full control of your expenses. You save a lot of money instead of spending it on costly dinners at the mall or on overpriced tube jean.

Also there are no worries about Valentine Day gifts, Christmas gifts, and birthday presents. Guys can save towards a future project. Ladies can also save to buy a piece of gold jewelry or a new dress. Being single allows one to save money, whereas being in a relationship could make one use up their life savings.

Another important point to note is control over time. We live in a busy world where almost nobody seem to get enough time, yet still we are compelled to make time for our partners by any means necessary. Mean while, if you are single, you have time for yourself, friends, family, sport, build a career and more.

It is very important to note that not all relationships are positive ones. There are negative one as well. And this could cause one a lot of problems.
When single, you do not face the amount of stress that you would have in a negative relationship.
You don't have to tolerate annoying habits of others like nagging, etc.
You get to know who you really are when you are single. It can give you a better awareness about yourself.

This post is not to discourage relationships; rather it is to let singles out there know that there is no need to be worry or sad, because single people also do enjoy life. We should just look at the positive side of things.
So the next time you find yourself alone (single), don't panic; instead cheer up. Nothing is lost if you don't have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. In fact there is so much to gain being single!

Now smile and always remember that God is busy writing you the best love story ever. Peace.

Love Hurts

Love doesn't always feel good, like many people would like to believe.

In the early stages of a relationship, it is difficult to imagine that the one you have such strong feelings for could ever hurt you. It is also hard to imagine that you could ever cause the one you love pain, especially when everything is so new. The beginning is always sweet and nice, but sooner or later something happens, and one of you gets hurt.

Have you ever heard the phrase, "you always hurt the one you love?" It's so true isn't it? You may not mean to, but at some point, you may do something that will hurt your partner.
As a matter of fact, relationships sometimes end because of this fact.

Someone once said ‘The ultimate definition of love is not about feeling good but rather about doing good’. Personally I think love means to cherish, hold dear, and treasure. We do not hurt, harm, or cause pain to those we love; rather, we seek to relieve their suffering. It is not about wanting someone; it's about wanting that one to be happy.

Some people give up everything just to be with that one special person that means the world to them but at the end what do they get? Hurt!
I’m beginning to think LOVE means HURT in a way. Don’t you agree with me?

Because if love is so sweet, rosy and not achy then how come we hurt the ones we claim we love?

I’m not advocating for the end of love. But if this is what love is then what is it worth?
I need comments please…

World Cup finally Over

The 2010 World Cup was, as far as I’m concerned, was very good, especially compared to the 2002 and 2006 editions.

There was a bit of everything: great goals, weird goals, surprise packages, disappointing teams and major upsets…

In the end, just like in 2006, three European teams took the podium. And the best part is that they did it by playing attractive, offensive-minded football.

In this world cup, beautiful, attacking football triumphed over defensive-minded formations especially after Inter won the Champions League with a defensive style of football).

Spain added the World Cup title to the European Cup won in 2008 (equaling France’s achievement in 1998 and 2000)

Holland was second and Germany completed the podium, as South American favorites Brazil and Argentina failed to live up to expectations.