Love doesn't always feel good, like many people would like to believe.
In the early stages of a relationship, it is difficult to imagine that the one you have such strong feelings for could ever hurt you. It is also hard to imagine that you could ever cause the one you love pain, especially when everything is so new. The beginning is always sweet and nice, but sooner or later something happens, and one of you gets hurt.
Have you ever heard the phrase, "you always hurt the one you love?" It's so true isn't it? You may not mean to, but at some point, you may do something that will hurt your partner.
As a matter of fact, relationships sometimes end because of this fact.
Someone once said ‘The ultimate definition of love is not about feeling good but rather about doing good’. Personally I think love means to cherish, hold dear, and treasure. We do not hurt, harm, or cause pain to those we love; rather, we seek to relieve their suffering. It is not about wanting someone; it's about wanting that one to be happy.
Some people give up everything just to be with that one special person that means the world to them but at the end what do they get? Hurt!
I’m beginning to think LOVE means HURT in a way. Don’t you agree with me?
Because if love is so sweet, rosy and not achy then how come we hurt the ones we claim we love?
I’m not advocating for the end of love. But if this is what love is then what is it worth?
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